Tuesday, February 22, 2011

A simple smile...

Sometimes I get inspiration for my mental ramblings from the least likely places...a comment from a friend - and then pause for deep reflection... and inspiration to share my craziness with you!

"You haven't lost your smile at all, it's right under your nose. You just forgot it was there."

If you read my earlier post about my struggle with self-image, you may recall that the "overly dramatic" exercise of comparing before and after pictures produced an interesting result - recognizing the difference in my smile.  So now months later - it is the most distinguishing factor in this transformation - appreciating a real, genuine smile that reflects my outlook on life.

Some may find this funny - but I have always been insecure about my smile - see... it's crooked. And the bigger my smile - the more noticeable that was.  A crooked smile might be cute on a little kid - but not a teenager, or and adult.  So that's where it started... limiting my smile to not expose a self-perceived flaw!

Right now I'm laughing at myself - seeing a recurring theme here... limits - fear of failure - self-perceived flaws... WOW - it really did permeate my life.


Sept 2008 with daughter Emily

January 2011 - SMILE - Life is good!





What really makes me smile...

I recognize in the before picture - how unhappy I really was... and this journey has taught me a lot.  I could try and tell you all the ways my life has changed - but my smile says it all.

So right now - my smile - has given me a new outlet for Living Out Loud - without saying a single word!
A real smile is a powerful tool - to show the world the qualities that make you beautiful on the inside.  A smile gives others an invitation to get to know you.
  • My smile is beautiful
  • My smile is contagious
  • My smile inspires others and gets bigger when I think about how far the smiles in my before/after pictures have traveled inspiring others
  • Someone out there will fall in love with my smile
  • I smile when no one else is around - and I know I'm happy
  • I smile when life gets difficult - after this journey - I know I can get through anything

4 comments:

  1. I've always been a fan of your smile! Even more so , now that is real!

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  2. your commitment to your physical goals and your blog are an inspiration! Thanks!

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  3. You look so happy in the recent pictures...and I am so haapy for you! It's a little sad that you were insecure with your smile....because it has always been beautiful!

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  4. I've always thought your smile was perfect, crooked and all! It's the only thing I recognize now. Love you!!

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